Patricia Heaton (Everybody Loves Raymond) on being in Hollywood but
not of it.
Interview by Stan Guthrie of Christianity Today
Patricia Heaton, an outspoken Christian who starred in the long-running
sitcom Everybody Loves Raymond, has remained busy. She hosted the
standup comedy program Thou Shalt Laugh (Warner Home Video, released on
DVD last month). Heaton also acted in The Path to 9/11 and The
Engagement Ring. She is a producer of Amazing Grace, a feature film
about British anti-slavery parliamentarian William Wilberforce, to be
released in February. Stan Guthrie, CT's senior associate editor, spoke
with Heaton.
How does your faith influence your choice of projects?
For the serious projects, you want to tell the truth. Sometimes people
think if you're a Christian you can't do a part that has any nudity or
obscenities. Those things, in and of themselves, are not problematic.
It's the way they are portrayed. And then part of me just loves to
entertain and make people laugh. That's one of the reasons I wanted to
host this comedy DVD. There's enough hard stuff going on in people's
lives, and you really need that joy that laughter can bring. I don't
have to put that in a Christian compartment.
In the DVD, you are very upfront about the fact that these are Christian
comics.
There's a need for Christians to stop being portrayed in our industry as
crazies. Christians—whether as a priest, a nun, a minister,
whatever—have just been stereotyped to death. You try to be a model of
kindness and love and forgiveness to all those around you, because you
have received kindness and love and forgiveness from God through Christ.
That's what Christianity is. You don't see that too much. Sometimes that
has been the fault of the Christian community, or the ignorance of the
secular community.
Are you normally this busy?
My husband is always telling me I need to do less, do less, do less. But
I feel like if I'm not being productive, I have a hard time relaxing and
enjoying myself.
Do you enjoy what you do?
No, I don't always necessarily enjoy it. A lot of actors feel you always
have to be working, because (a) there were so many years when you didn't
work and (b) there could be many more years when you don't work. You
never know if you're going to get a job.
You've certainly not shied away from taking strong, public stands as a
Christian. Do people in Hollywood listen to you?
Frankly, most of my friends hold very different political beliefs. It's
just a funny thing in this country that supposedly you can't sit down
and have dinner and enjoy another person's company if you don't have the
same beliefs. It's ridiculous. And it's not real. It's not really an
issue for me here. But if some real harm is being done, as in the Terri
Schiavo case, it's my duty to be a good steward of the position of
privilege here that I've received. There are occasions when I have to
speak up.
Years ago, a lot of Christians just shunned Hollywood.
Now we're paying the price. From the beginning of church history, music,
writing, literature, and the greatest works of art all came from the
church. To change the culture and make it a force for good, you have to
be in it and be a part of it. And you have to be more excellent than
anyone else. It's not that you have to embrace everything that comes
out—there's a lot of crap out there—but you need to be able to have an
intellectual discussion of why something is not portraying the truth of
our human condition.