"I'll
Go Out With a Walker Before I Call It Quits"
A Conversation with Doris Roberts
By David Martindale
When Doris Roberts read the script
for "Our House," a Hallmark Channel Original movie,
the words of her beloved husband came to mind.
"My late husband was William Goyen,
a writer of some renown, and he wrote something that
I remembered so clearly," says Roberts, the Emmy-winning
"Everybody Loves Raymond" star. "He wrote that, when
we see infirm or handicapped or older people, or the
homeless, we tend to turn away, we shun them and 'we
take away their light.'"
In "Our House," Roberts plays a woman who welcomes a
group of homeless people into her home, helps them
start anew and gives them back their light. "I got
them to put that lovely saying into the film,"
Roberts says. "It's something my character says,
quoting her late husband. But it's actually my late
husband that I'm quoting."
It's a small tribute to the man Roberts loved and
admired. They were married for 20 years until his
death in 1983. But the passage was inserted into the
script more so because it captures the spirit and
the message of the movie.
"My hope is that, after people see the movie, the
next day they might not make rash assumptions when
they see homeless people," Roberts says. "Who knows
what life did to them to cause them to be on the
street? And who are we to judge them? So that's what
I hope the movie accomplishes, that it discourages
viewers from judging these people and shunning them,
that instead they'll have compassion for them."
True to Goyen's words, Roberts doesn't look away
when she sees the homeless. Sometimes, as a result,
what she witnesses breaks her heart. "I saw a young
girl not too long ago -- such a pretty little thing
-- just out on the street with a look of absolute
despair. I thought, 'What can I do? Can I take her
home with me like we do in the movie?' There are so
many people out there just like her who just need a
little help somewhere along the way, just one more
chance to make it."
Unfortunately, at other times, while refusing to
look away from a problem that is more widespread
than we often like to acknowledge, Roberts has seen
con artists preying on people's sentiment. "One
thing I have seen that was just outrageous. I saw a
young woman seated on the ground. She had a big
sign. It said, 'I'm homeless, I need help, I need
money.' And she was on her cell phone. Perhaps
calling her partner to say, 'I've
got my quota for the day; come get me.' I couldn't
believe my eyes. I almost got into a car crash."
But it didn't poison Roberts' compassion for those
truly in need. In October, for example, she was one
of many celebrities to participate in "Mississippi
Rising," a fundraising concert benefiting the
Mississippi Hurricane Recovery Fund. "We raised
millions of dollars that will go to helping people
rebuild their communities," she says.
In the movie, Roberts' character (Ruth Galloway, a
Beverly Hills widow) not only gives
down-on-their-luck street people a fresh start, but
she also restores her own soul in the process. "In
the beginning of the movie, this is a woman who
feels she has no reason to live, which is something,
as Doris Roberts, that I can't understand.
Personally, I find life very exciting and wonderful.
But she doesn't find that joy until she gives of
herself to help these people. That's something that
I think people don't realize, that giving and
sharing makes you feel good."
This is the first season in a decade that "Everybody
Loves Raymond," a phenomenal TV hit, is no longer
part of Roberts' life. But the actress says she has
been too busy to let that void sink in yet. "I've
done two feature movies since then and this movie
for Hallmark Channel," she says. "So I haven't had
time to even be sad about it. Besides, I had nine
fabulous years. That show is now in 171 countries in
the world. I cannot complain."
Nor, apparently, can she bring herself to
contemplating a life without acting, even though she
is now well into her 70s. Retirement, Roberts
believes, is for people who dislike their jobs.
"Isn't that the truth?" she says with a laugh. "I
just love what I do. I really do. I'll go out with a
walker, I think, before I call it quits."